Wendy Ann Dethloff


Wendy Ann Dethloff, 56, of Belton, MO.

Wendy was a fun and loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister and aunt.

Wendy was born to Ed Kinney and Sandra (Jo) Browning on July 19th, 1964. She graduated from Midway High School in 1982. She served in the United States Army for 3 years overseas. She held a career at the IRS, followed by her retirement after 31 years, in July 2020.

Wendy married Kevin (her high school sweetheart) on August 23rd, 2003 and got to spend 18 loving years together.

Wendy is survived by husband Kevin Dethloff, mother Sandra Browning, sister Sharon DeSeure (Dave), daughter Leah (Jeremy), son Josh (Ashley), bonus daughters Trinity Vaughan and Barbara Yearout, her grandchildren Greyson, Alynna, Brantley, Harper Rose, bonus grandchildren Dakota, Destiny, Lilly, Alexa, and several nieces and nephews.

Wendy is preceded in death by her father, Ed Kinney.

Wendy was truly a one of a kind soul and you never knew what she was going to say or do. She will be deeply missed by all that were blessed enough to have her in their lives.


Services will be provided at a later date.

Memorial Contributions

In lieu of flowers or donations please keep her in your hearts.


  1. Sharon DeSeure on January 27, 2021 at 11:54 pm

    A month has passed without you in the world. I have a hole that I cannot find anything to fill this spot with. I keep hearing “it just takes time”. I have been robbed of time my whole life. I don;t know if time will be any easier on me now. So far, time has been a real bastard. I love you sissy. I miss you every single day.

  2. Sheila on January 2, 2021 at 3:23 pm

    I miss you Wendy! . My prayers go out to your family. Thanks for all the fun memories. Love you!

  3. Sue & Great Aunt Bonnie Kampe on January 2, 2021 at 1:27 am

    We are so sorry to hear this news but know Wendy is in the hearts of all she left behind. She now walks with our Lord. She was my 2nd cuz. I just wished we would have lived closer to Sharon & Wendy so our times together wouldn’t have been so few. I remember her well as a care free child all smiles & mischief. She will be missed by all.

  4. Shauna on January 1, 2021 at 7:47 pm

    Seems like the party never got started till either Aunt Wendy or Aunt Donna showed up. If both were there, there we were in a for a night of laughter and memories to be made.
    Wendy was someone you couldn’t wait to be around. I’m gonna have to wait a little longer, but when I see you again… well who know what is in store.
    Love you more than you could know. Thank for being more than just and aunt, but a guide, a Confidant and a good friend.
    Love you!

  5. Jose alfredo polanco on December 30, 2020 at 11:01 am

    Wendy Rest in peace, I couldn’t get to know you but from what I’ve heard you were a really nice person, blessings in heaven

  6. Sondra Browning on December 29, 2020 at 7:33 am

    Ed and I waited three years Wendy to come into our lives . When she did arrive , she was a joy. She was the first granddaughter to my parents , Bob and Helen Young and the first granddaughter to Dewey and Opal Kinney . I know that she is with her dad and both sets of grandparents. I also know they will take care of my beautiful daughter until I can be with her

    • Shauna on January 1, 2021 at 7:48 pm

      Love you grandma.. let me know if I can help.

    • Robert Banks on January 3, 2021 at 10:29 am

      Whenever Wendy walked into a room or anywhere else, she was always kind and generous. She indicated each and all with her radiant smile and greeting. Her smile was oh so gleaming and rippling. As one who has lost a wife to the worst of nightmares , I find it much easier to remember the best of one who has passed on. Bless Wendy and her smile, and giving heart .

      • Sharon DeSeure on January 4, 2021 at 7:16 pm

        Thank you, Bob. That means the world to me

  7. Kim Patel on December 27, 2020 at 3:12 pm

    Wendy Wu, you are gone way too soon. My heart hurts. You were so sweet, giving, and loving towards others. You were so silly and funny with your stories and yes you did love singing with your music. I will never forget lunches with you, your horrible taste in movies and all the fun and work complaints shared. Miss you already!!!

  8. Sondra Browning on December 26, 2020 at 4:32 pm

    I have a deep hole in my heart and it will be there until I can see her again and hold her in my arms.

  9. Debbie Losensky on December 26, 2020 at 1:23 pm

    My heart goes out to the family. I didn’t have the honor or pleasure of knowing Wendy well but I know from others that she will be deeply missed. Treasure the memories and keep her in your hearts forever! Prayers and Hugs!

  10. Robert Kinney on December 26, 2020 at 12:35 pm

    Wendy is my first cousin our family will miss her very deeply ! We have lost so many Family members in the last 5 years . I’m sending Lots of Love Wendy the poo!

  11. Brittany Oliver on December 26, 2020 at 11:40 am

    This breaks my heart that the world lost such a beautiful soul. I can’t say how sorry I am for Kevin and family that will be missing her this Christmas. You all are in my prayers and I love you all.

  12. DebraAnnPereira on December 26, 2020 at 11:19 am

    Wendy , Rest In Peace gone but never forgotten and just know I’ll be there for your lovely sister Sharon and you will be missed always , prayers going up for your families and friends love & light

  13. lora evans on December 23, 2020 at 5:33 pm

    I loved her laugh she was always a joy to be around and you truly didn’t know what she would say or do. she had a giving heart and will be missed greatly.

    • Sharon DeSeure on December 26, 2020 at 10:44 am

      This is my one and only sister. I miss you every day! You could always make me laugh out loud, you know, the frozen face! Laughing so hard I cried until my stomach hurt! I miss you more than my heart has ever known! I know that you are in good hands. I think I will hang out here for a while. There’s still stuff I need to do. But, save me a good spot. I can’t wait ti laugh again, with you.

    • Sondra Browning on December 26, 2020 at 3:45 pm

      Wendy was thet granddaughter in the Kinney family since her aunt Donna. I will always love her and her outgoing personality . She would be in a store with me and say something to a complete stranger and make them laugh . She was kind hearted and loving . I miss her so very much . There is a deep hole in my heart that will never heal until I can see her and hold her in my arms again . Love you, baby girl.

  14. Lois May on December 22, 2020 at 7:17 pm

    Wendy has been in my heart forever. Goofy as she was she made me laugh. She did love to sing. Rest In Peace Wendy, you will be missed

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